Process

[pjthompson]

Random quote of the day:

“Life is a process of becoming, a combination of states we have to go through. Where people fail is that they wish to elect a state and remain in it. This is a kind of death.”

—Anaïs Nin, D. H. Lawrence: An Unprofessional Study

Disclaimer: The views expressed in this random quote of the day do not necessarily reflect the views of the poster, her immediate family, Laurel and Hardy, Ariana Grande, or the Salvation Army Band. They do, however, sometimes reflect the views of the Cottingley Fairies.

Mirrored from Better Than Dead.

Comments

[notasupervillain]

I've never felt complete and wanted to stop becoming.

[pjthompson]

I think of it as a series of plateaus. You become, then you rest for awhile, then you become some more, then you rest for awhile... :-) I've had to reinvent myself several times as the old plateau crumbles beneath me. Each time is painful and makes me feel unmoored until I reach the next safe plateau. Then I can settle in for a time and do the work I need to do.

[notasupervillain]

That's a lovely way to put it.